Our lives are constantly changing. Our ability to transition and adapting to that change can define whether we have been successful or not. At our international schools, we are constantly adding students and, sadly, losing students. We do our best to help our students adapt to their new surroundings here at HIS and prepare them for their move to the next chapter of their life.
Below are some thoughts from one of our school counselors, Ruth Viader.
As we approach the end of the academic year, I wanted to share some insights
about how the transitions many of our students are facing can impact their
behavior and emotional well-being over the next few weeks.
For international school students, the end of the year often means big life
changes and transitions, on top of the usual changes in classmates, teachers,
and routines. Some students will be leaving our school and moving to a new
country or city, while others who are staying might be feeling out of place
knowing their best friend is leaving.
Many of you have already started seeing an increase in students acting out,
having emotional outbursts, withdrawing more than usual, feeling anxious
or sad, or simply having a hard time focusing on academics. This is to
be expected, and something we should keep in mind, seeing as the end
of the year is tiring enough as it is without all the additional emotions and
behavior. Try to take breaks yourself and remind yourself that on top of the increased behaviors from the students, we also tend to have less patience
than when we are fresh off the holidays.
So, here are some more tips to keep in mind as we get closer to summer
and your students are getting restless:
- Validate their feelings: let students know it's normal to feel a range of emotions about these changes.
- Maintain routines: as much as possible, sticking to normal classroom routines can provide a sense of predictability.
- Find time to reflect on the year and provide closure:reflect on their goals and achievements this year, discuss what they are looking forward to keep doing/learning, etc. Create a memory book, art piece, etc. to remember the year by.
- And lastly, try to remind yourself (and the students) to have extra patience with each other.
Change affects us all. And, with a little bit of support, we can all transition successfully.
ITS A GREAT DAY TO BE AN HIS DRAGON!!!
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